Effects of divorce on the kids

Sometimes parents get divorced, In fact, fifty-one percent of all marriages fail.
Divorce can be divided into two types, the friendly type and the messy type. The friendly ones are good for every one (mom and dad no longer love each other and are now free to find their new love and the kids, that learn that it is possible to separate nicely) but the messy ones can scar your kids forever.

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Here are a few tips from kids that may help direct your divorce towards the nice type:

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• I need the too of you of you to stay involved in my life. Please write letters to me, make phone calls frequently, and ask me lots of questions. When you donít stay involved, I feel like I am not important and that you donít really love me.
• Please stop fighting and work hard to get along with each other. Try to agree on matters related to me. When you fight about me, I think that I did something wrong and I feel guilty.
• I want to love you both and enjoy the time that I spend with each of you. Please support me and the time that I spend with each of you. If you act jealous or upset, I feel like I need to take sides and love one parent more than the other.
• Please communicate directly with my other parent so that I donít have to send messages back and forth.
• When talking about my other parent, please say only nice things, or donít say anything at all. When you say mean, unkind things about my other parent, I feel like you are expecting me to take your side.
• Please remember that I want both of you to be a part of my life. I count on my mom and dad to raise me, to teach me what is important, and to help me when I have problems.

Remember that this doesn't have to be so painful.